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6/08/2016

Do Psychopaths Genuinely Lack Empathy, Or Are They Feeling You?

The most common observation made about psychopaths is that they feel no empathy. I have said it myself in Courtroom testimony, repeating a truism I picked up years ago: “they fail to empathize and are therefore prone to victimize.”

Empathy refers to the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. 

As noted in an essential text (The Psychopathic Mind by J. Reid Meloy, Ph.D.) the science unequivocally “supports the hypothesis that psychopathic individuals” (i.e., those with “antisocial personality disorder”) “are autonomically hyporeactive.”  In other words, their biology is such that they do not experience emotions as intensely as others, and therefore, it is thought that they are not inhibited by guilt, fear, anxiety, self-doubt, or remorse. 

This does not mean that con men and criminals have no feelings at all.  As Meloy observed, in situations where an emotional reaction would be expected from “a more socialized, empathic individual,” they might feel little or nothing. But at the same time, they can can display “intense, unmodulated affect that is dramatized by its unpredictably.” 

It is readily observed that psychopaths experience feelings such as anger, resentment, envy and jealousy. Narcissism - a core element of the sociopathic character type - can produce powerful feelings of self-righteousness and entitlement. When caught and in custody, many will feel distress - not every one of them is a cool customer. 
Psychopaths certainly have the capacity to feel a range of emotions. The description of them as having reptilian (snake-like) brains is mostly a metaphor. When you consider how they are able to control, manipulate and dominate people, it is apparent that they are quite adept at understanding and sharing the feelings of others. 

Lack of “empathy” or not, they are typically quite skilled at “feeling you.”

How does a hardened male prisoner convince a female correctional officer to bring him nude photos of herself? How could that happen? An unrepentant killer once explained it to me. Over time, he connected as a real person and engaged her emotions. He shared her feelings, obtained her trust, created an emotional dependency, and then corrupted her. He had done this before, relying on his mastery of empathy to exploit the needs and feelings of others. 

It is no different with the sociopath selling a pyramid-scheme, a Ponzi investment, or a get-rich seminar. They can feel their victim’s greed or desperation, and the potency of their hopes and dreams. Showmen and carnival barkers feel their audience to entice and seduce them, as do all charlatans, hucksters and snake-oil peddlers. 

It is also no different with an aggressively domineering psychopath (aka, “bully”). Bullies operate by exploiting a power differential. It can be real or perceived, and either social or physical. In the interest of dominating, they seek to evoke feelings of shame, frustration, terror or fear. Their attacks are informed by their ability to sense the emotional vulnerabilities of their victims - to feel them and to know how they can be intimidated or twisted, provoked or incited. 

Psychopaths can have rich emotional lives. As narcissists, they strive for love, admiration, and self-indulgent gratification.  As predators, they are aroused by the hunt and the suffering of their prey. They may obtain pleasure in seeing others shamed and may find gratification in an opponent’s misery. It is thought that because they are emotionally hyporeactive, they seek excitement and stimulation. It takes more for them to feel alive, and so it makes sense that they would feed off the emotions of others. 

To say that a psychopath lacks “empathy” is to reach for a broader definition of the term. It is a definition of empathy that involves sympathy and an unselfish, altruistic impulse. It is an emotion that guides us towards feeling the pain of others and treating them as we would wish to be treated. 

When it is said that a psychopath is lacking in empathy, what is actually meant is that they are lacking in compassion, kindness, and a shared vision of morality. It means they reserve justice for themselves and believe that fairness is measured by what is good for them.
 
Whether in a dark alley or a high-rise tower, the psychopath seeks to dominate others in order to satisfy their own desires. To deploy fear, shame or deceit to acquire your submission, the psychopath needs to know how you feel and how you will react. They do not care about you or empathize in that sense, but you should never doubt that they are feeling you.




4/12/2016

Psychopath or Sociopath? It Makes no Difference What you Call Them

Originally published at The Huffington Post.

From the earliest days in my career as a criminal forensic psychologist, I have encountered treatises and learned discussions about the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths. Still, to this day, I have never had reason to use the terms, other as than as synonyms.

7/30/2015

The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015) Movie Trailer: An Allegory for the APA Ethics-Torture Fiasco


The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015) Movie Trailer: An Allegory ...

Originally published at The Huffington Post-Jul 30, 2015

On July 10, 2015, the American Psychological Association (APA) released The Hoffman Report, an independent investigation into the ethics and behavior of psychologists and the Association, relative to the Bush-era CIA "torture" experiments.
A week later, by coincidence, director Kyle Patrick Alvarez's film The Stanford Prison Experiment (2015) was released in theaters. The movie is billed as an accurate portrayal of a famous 1971 research project that was conceived and overseen by Stanford psychology Professor Philip Zimbardo.

1/30/2015

4 Fs of Stress: Beyond Fight or Flight

Originally published at The Huffington Post

The "fight or flight response" is routinely invoked as a shorthand way of explaining that psychological stress involves activation of the sympathetic division of the autonomic nervous system. Too often, the explanation ends there, with the implication that this form of arousal is a bad thing.

1/10/2015

Meaning and Purpose in Life: Commonplace or Hard to Come By?

Originally published at the Huffington Post.


In all cultures and at all times, humans have sought to make sense of their existence. Man's search for meaning is a quest as ancient as the dawn of human consciousness.

For at least 100,000 years, humans have buried the dead with rituals and with artifacts, apparently believing that life involves something more than just running from the lion, hunting, gathering, and mating.
It is well established that a sense of purpose is necessary for psychological health, and in turn, for human adaptation and survival. If life did not seem worth it, our ancestors may have given up on running from the lion. If depressed, they may have been less enthusiastic about mating.

Pouring Salt on the Wound: Psychologists Identify the Effects of 'Institutional Betrayal'

Originally published at the Huffington Post.

Women exposed to sexual assault in the military suffer more trauma-related symptoms than female veterans sexually assaulted in civilian life. Children abused only in residential care settings are more likely to have difficulties as adults than children who were abused only at home.
Those are the findings from two studies that have helped define the role of "institutional betrayal" in the experience of traumatic stress.
Summarizing the literature in the September edition of the American Psychologist(the flagship journal of the American Psychological Association), Carly Parnitze Smith and Jennifer J. Freyd state conclusively that institutional attitudes, priorities and behaviors significantly influence the development of post-traumatic distress.

2/19/2014

McDonalds Mocked for Remarkable Stress Hormone Discovery?

Banksy gives foot massage 
to relieve an executive's stress. 

New York City minimum wage workers have organized at FastFoodForward.org, thinking that McDonalds is going to give them a raise. They are just poor people complaining about poverty, so to get attention, these activists decided to mock McDonalds. It’s not rocket science and the company is fair game. 

The headlines at Salon.com caught my eye: McDonalds tells workers to ‘sing away stress’ and ‘chew away cares’ … Stress hormone levels rise by 15% after ten minutes of complaining … giant corporation warns employees.

5/13/2013

Aaron Antonovsky's insight on observing Holocaust survivors.

An interview I gave to the Sacramento Bee was published this morning.  I was asked about the escape of Amanda Berry with her child, and the rescue of two other women after years being caged in a house in Cleveland by a sadist.

When interviewed,  I discussed an observation about Holocaust survivors that was made by the late Aaron Antonovsky,  an American-born medical sociologist (doctorate from Yale) who made his career at the Israel Institute for Applied Social Research in Jerusalem.

Antonovsky is not as well known as he should be.  To the extent that he is known,  it is for "a theory" that he called the sense of coherence and a term he coined:  salutogenesis.  

3/26/2012

What is workplace retaliation? It's about making people afraid.

What is workplace retaliation?

It is not what most people think it is.

Retaliation is not the same as harassment or “hostilte workplace,” and it is not about people getting revenge or “getting back" at anyone.

Retaliation is about making people afraid to complain or to assert their rights.  It is a subtle, but important distinction.

In a retaliation case,  the law is not concerned with why something happened or why someone did something.  That is the issue in harassment and workplace hostility cases: did they do it because they don’t like certain people?  ... was it a matter of discrimination?

In a retaliation case,  the only concern is whether an "adverse action" (following from a complaint or "protected activity") would tend to discourage other people from complaining. It doesn't matter what the motive or intent was. It also doesn't matter whether the original complaint was valid.  You cannot be punished for standing up.  If they can punish you, who is ever going to speak out? 

The common sense meaning of the term "retaliation" is not useful in Court because it is difficult to prove that someone did something because they were carrying a grudge or feeling resentment.   When someone is suddenly treated differently at work,  or assigned different responsibilities,  or excluded from meetings or discussions,  there is always some excuse or explanation.   There is always some pretext (i.e.,  a “made-up” excuse).

The Supreme Court decided (
see footnote) that to protect employees from retaliation, there needed to be a an objective test,  one that does not depend on arguments about intent or purpose,  or about who was mad at whom,  or whose feelings were hurt,  or whether the organization's reasons were honest or not.

Those things are always difficult to prove, because as the Supreme Court said:  "
the real social impact of workplace behavior often depends on a constellation of surrounding circumstances,  expectations and relationships."  In other words,  it is difficult to tell whether some action was actually malevolent.   How something is viewed depends on the particular situation.

The Supreme Court has made it clear that the law does not seek to establish a "general code of civility" for the American workplace.  Employment law is not like an etiquette manual where you can just look up the answer and find out how people are supposed to behave.   As an example,  “colorful language” is offensive in an office,  but it may seem ordinary on an offshore oil rig.

In distinguishing between breeches of etiquette and significant harms,  and in emphasizing the need to consider context,  the Court was focusing on the test for harassment complaints.  It makes sense that it is not harassment every time someone says a bad word at work. 


Harassment and discrimination are different than retaliation.

Harassment is about abusive work conditions.  In general,  if someone at work abuses everyone,  that’s ok.  That’s
just “bullying”  (which is another topic).

If people get picked on because of their gender or color (etc.),  that is discrimination,  and that is what Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 prohibits: discrimination.

In creating an objective test for acts of retaliation,  the Supreme Court linked the definition of "retaliation" to the actual purpose of the law prohibiting it.

The prohibition against retaliation is not for the purpose of protecting people from abuse,  or even discrimination.  Acts of retaliation will certainly involve "abuse,"  but what the anti-retaliation law is concerned about is protecting the individual's right to complain or to seek grievance.

What the Supreme Court said was that if people are afraid to report violations of the Civil Rights Act,  or if they are afraid to offer witness,  the law cannot effectively be enforced. Enforcement depends on the courage and cooperation of individuals.

Retaliation is prohibited so that people can enjoy full access to the protection of the Civil Rights Act. It is prohibited so that people will not be afraid or feel terrorized at work. 

The Supreme Court’s objective test for retaliation complaints was set forth in Burlington Northern v. White.  It can be stated in simple terms:
If you engage in some protected activity (e.g., like blowing a whistle or filing a complaint) and then your job is changed in some way that is not good (i.e.,  it’s a materially adverse change),  and if you and other reasonable people take that as a warning or even a disincentive to complain,  it’s retaliation.  
In a retaliation complaint,  the law is not concerned about whether or not it was meant to be a threat or meant to chill free speech.  The objective test has to do with how people experience or respond to the events they observe.  

How people would respond is knowable,  measurable and a matter of common sense and common experience.  That is what makes it objective.  

Intuitively,  people know what retaliation looks like. Everyone knows that if you complain, there is a good chance you are going to be punished, and everyone knows about pretend excuses from management.

Retaliation is illegal,  irrespective of the excuse.  Even if they patch things up afterwards,  it is still illegal.  If they give you back the office or put you back on the forklift,  the harm has already been done.  In the case of Burlington Northern,  the Supreme Court said that it didn’t matter that the railroad compensated Sheila White with back-pay.  The “no-harm,  no-foul” rule does not apply.

The prohibition against retaliation is not just a matter of law.  It is not just a fair employment and Civil Rights issue.  Making certain that employees feel empowered to voice their concerns is a test of organizational leadership.

An organization cannot function effectively when workers are afraid.  People won't ask questions they should ask, they won't report things they should report, and they won't stand up to authority when necessary.  If management is the last to know when something is wrong,  that is a problem.

Somewhere in every workplace,   there is a poster or a pamphlet that says retaliation is unlawful and prohibited.  Hardly anywhere will you find something telling you exactly what retaliation actually consists of.  It seems to be a matter of common sense, and clarity in the law has only existed for a half dozen years,  since Burlington Northern in 2006.  In the Courts,  that is not long at all.

While management may not yet have gotten the message,  they certainly will.  Ignoring employee complaints is a huge risk.  In March 2012 in Sacramento,  a jury made an award of $167 million in a retaliation case against a Catholic Hospital.  There was no mercy for the Sisters of Mercy.

Retaliation is workplace terrorism,  and juries know it when they see it.  That is the objective test that defines retaliation.  


Copyright, Paul G. Mattiuzzi, Ph.D.


footnote:  

The Supreme Court rulings on retaliation law can be understood by reading just three cases,  each of which was decided by a unanimous vote:  

Oncale v. Sundowner Offshore Services (1998):  
An opinion delivered by Justice Antonin Scalia,  Oncale is best known for having established that men can be victims of gender discrimination,  just like women.   
Of equal importance,  the decision said that context matters,  not every workplace tribulation is a matter of harassment.  It depends on the “constellation of surrounding circumstances,  expectations and relationships.”  The law is not an etiquette book or general civility code.  
These are conservative opinions,  and they provided a foundation for a conservative interpretation of the anti-retaliation provision.  
Burlington Northern v. Sheila White (2006):
Burlington Northern established an objective test for retaliation claims:  if you are somehow treated badly after voicing a complaint,  and if that would make people think twice about speaking up,  that’s retaliation.  
The Court ruled that even if an employer tries to make it up to the employee,  the harm has been done when the adverse action was taken.  
Burlington Northern also resolved a series of outstanding legal arguments about retaliation law.  Before this,  different Federal District Courts had different opinions about how to interpret the law.  
From the decision:     
 The anti-retaliation provision protects an individual not from all retaliation, but from retaliation that produces an injury or harm. As we have explained, the Courts of Appeals have used differing language to describe the level of seriousness to which this harm must rise before it becomes actionable retaliation. We agree with the formulation set forth by the Seventh and the District of Columbia Circuits. In our view, a plaintiff must show that a reasonable employee would have found the challenged action materially adverse, “which in this context means it well might have ‘dissuaded a reasonable worker from making or supporting a charge of discrimination.’ ”Rochon, 438 F. 3d, at 1219 (quoting Washington, 420 F. 3d, at 662).
    We speak of material adversity because we believe it is important to separate significant from trivial harms. Title VII, we have said, does not set forth “a general civility code for the American workplace.” Oncale v. Sundowner Offshore Services, Inc., 523 U. S. 7580 (1998) ; see Faragher, 524 U. S., at 788 (judicial standards for sexual harassment must “filter out complaints attacking ‘the ordinary tribulations of the workplace, such as the sporadic use of abusive language, gender-related jokes, and occasional teasing’ ”). An employee’s decision to report discriminatory behavior cannot immunize that employee from those petty slights or minor annoyances that often take place at work and that all employees experience. See 1 B. Lindemann & P. Grossman, Employment Discrimination Law 669 (3d ed. 1996) (noting that “courts have held that personality conflicts at work that generate antipathy” and “ ‘snubbing’ by supervisors and co-workers” are not actionable under §704(a)). The anti-retaliation provision seeks to prevent employer interference with “unfettered access” to Title VII’s remedial mechanisms. Robinson, 519 U. S., at 346. It does so by prohibiting employer actions that are likely “to deter victims of discrimination from complaining to the EEOC,” the courts, and their employers. Ibid. And normally petty slights, minor annoyances, and simple lack of good manners will not create such deterrence. See 2 EEOC 1998 Manual §8, p. 8–13.
    We refer to reactions of a reasonable employee because we believe that the provision’s standard for judging harm must be objective. An objective standard is judicially administrable. It avoids the uncertainties and unfair discrepancies that can plague a judicial effort to determine a plaintiff’s unusual subjective feelings. We have emphasized the need for objective standards in other Title VII contexts, and those same concerns animate our decision here. See, e.g.,Suders, 542 U. S., at 141 (constructive discharge doctrine); Harris v. Forklift Systems, Inc., 510 U. S. 1721 (1993) (hostile work environment doctrine).
    We phrase the standard in general terms because the significance of any given act of retaliation will often depend upon the particular circumstances. Context matters. “The real social impact of workplace behavior often depends on a constellation of surrounding circumstances, expectations, and relationships which are not fully captured by a simple recitation of the words used or the physical acts performed.” Oncalesupra, at 81–82. A schedule change in an employee’s work schedule may make little difference to many workers, but may matter enormously to a young mother with school age children. Cf., e.g.Washington, supra, at 662 (finding flex-time schedule critical to employee with disabled child). A supervisor’s refusal to invite an employee to lunch is normally trivial, a nonactionable petty slight. But to retaliate by excluding an employee from a weekly training lunch that contributes significantly to the employee’s professional advancement might well deter a reasonable employee from complaining about discrimination. See 2 EEOC 1998 Manual §8, p. 8–14. Hence, a legal standard that speaks in general terms rather than specific prohibited acts is preferable, for an “act that would be immaterial in some situations is material in others.” Washingtonsupra, at 661.
Thompson v. North American Stainless (2011):
Re-affirms Burlington Northern and decides that you cannot retaliate against someone at work because of something their spouse or family member did somewhere else.  



 

9/19/2011

"A Yale Psychologist Calls for the End of Individual Psychotherapy?" Did I read that correctly?

Here's the back story:  a famous,  well-respected psychologist writes a hugely complex journal article and then gives an interview to TIME Healthland online.  The interview is as confusing as the journal article,  and great controversy ensues in the profession.

Are people being mislead and confused?  Are they being harmed?  Does he have a valid point?